There is a symmetry to language. There is a liquidity to feelings. Together and everything in between is the human experience.

Autistic Individuals & Nuerotypicals live co-habitably on this planet and for us to develop our optimal psychology we must love, hate, endeavour, resign, and condone each others behavior as the root goal of our species is no longer meant to survive, but to thrive. A terse rule-system to be deployed would end in chaos as everyone would start to cut each other off. A more permissive rule-system allows us to learn from our mistakes and become better people. As a society, we have whole systems put in place to support individuals struggling with their mental health issues. At the end of the day, those struggles are limited to self observation and the representation of those issues are hard to interpret by observers of the behavior

Science is more permissive and naturally a terse rule-system follower will learn from the thought experiments of those more enlightened in their pursuits of knowledge. Which is why science will continue to thrive, it is embedded into our nature as humans. Our natural curiosity cannot be extinguished, no matter how terse or difficult the environment may be. People following terse rule-systems will try to steal from you, and they will call it that, but the altruism of science is that the information is shared freely. The method though, that takes time to learn and to practice. Don't mistake competition and adversarial growth as an enemy to your agency

What is it like being Autistic in a world setup for Nuerotypicals? Well, its actually quite pleasant.. once I got a handle on the inversion of feelings relative to neurotypicals, I started making progress. The hard part was figuring out which rules I could break and which ones I had to leave alone and further more figuring out which rules I would broadcast to show mutual understanding that respect goes both ways. The human element is this, we all fear reprimand and we all fear our skeletons, as much as they might haunt us, the truth those skeletons only exist as a standard on how not to repeat mistakes. We need those skeletons as much as we need our drive to thrive. The sad truth is those who are afraid to lose everything are assimilated into shame culture and facilitate the development of terse rule-systems to sustain and struggle greatly with growth

Humans make mistakes and its that fallibility that makes us so figgin lovable because we empathize with those mistakes just as much as we empathize with so many other emotions and that is why the world works today. For the majority of people out there, love is our primary driver.. however it is often not talked about because it is easily corruptible and so we protect it. We protect ourselves by not talking about it as much as we could talk about it

There isn't a clear guide on how to set standards for anyone. Timeout's are the most common thing, but not something that can be done after the person becomes a biological adult. I firmly believe people need to feel included in every regard, but I also hold the belief that if someone is to be included, they need to know how to remain quiet and considerate of the group. At the same time, that person needs to recognize that their participation in the group is only permissible because they follow the social rules that go along with it.. and this is where people, not just autistic people, have trouble interpreting information being spoken

Autistic people are simply the marginalized group bringing it to the forefront of everyone's attention

I raise the question. If autistic behavior is an example of what not to do.. then how do we as a group of people, become okay with our behavior, without falling victim the the fallacy of autistic supremacy?

( Think about the implications of that question for a moment, a thought experiment, if you will? )